Friday, August 22, 2008

Committed.

I know it's been quite some time. A long post is due. Not now, for I have this stupid fever and everything that comes with the package :/

I wanted to know what the title means to you guys.. what does it reflect.. the word 'committed'..
For me, it's a very positive word. Don't ask me where I got that, but the impression somehow stays. A person who's committed to anything (good) gets attention and respect from me.

The word has majorly gained popularity post the Orkut Relationship-Status thing.. which brings me to how I got down to thinking about it.

This other day, I was telling Ma about this family friend I had connected with on Orkut recently and that he's committed and the like.. normal chit - chat.
A little later ma goes.. "You know.. when I hear 'committed' the first (and maybe the only) thing that strikes me is.. committed suicide! "

:D :D
and while I was ROTFL , I realised how meaningful that could be! :P ( I know some committed people who've sufferred majorly ;) )

People I've talked to have given me different views on what the word means/reflects to them.
What's your take?

PS : Had this activity in class some days back.. which left an impression.. will blog on it next.. this weekend!

50 'cutting' aur bol! :D:

Nidhi said...

Bhai ! Take care and get well soon :)

To me the word committed brings with it.. loads of respect for the committed soul... be it ur work, ur family or the special person in ur life... Committment makes it more beautiful and graceful :)

Vinz aka Vinu said...

commitment..

hehe..the word that is most discussed over there in orkut-o-sphere...

even i love that word..so power it got..!!committed to something..especially when it comes to relationship..!!

and be it for other things also, the thought of being committed is itself is a motivational thing to be more focussed on that..

committed to someone/something gives a path in life..!!

Trinaa said...

bhaiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii....thank god ur back!! r u alright now?

hmmmmmm..'committed'..ya i immediately think of relationships too.. baaaaaaaad orkut n facebook habit!!

ANWESA said...

well,committed means resolved.And its important to remember ppl n things u r committed to.

Stupidosaur said...

Crime is something that is committed.

So if I am committed, am I crime?

Alok said...

To be honest, I thought this was going to be a declaration post, like you were committed to somebody or something. XD

I agree with you, being "committed" is one of the most precious qualities humans possess. Most importantly, humans can choose what they want to commit to, unlike animals, who stay committed only to their instincts.

So to me, it means the whole world. Isn't commitment and effort that drives the world?

I feel commitment (for anything) as the result of Love for it, and Love is what keeps people alive.

WAR10CK said...
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WAR10CK said...

its first time that i am on ur blog...
and after reading may be 6-7 of ur posts when i cheked out ur profile it turned out that what i thought of as he ws she... lol :)

bhai with chai???
mam with chai???( no offence -pun intented). lol


and as for committed ... i guess the meaning of the word has nearly changed its context now... thanx to orkut!

WAR10CK said...

and may be its good in a way... cause
may be orkut just keeps on reminding them that being in relationship is a committment....

Urv said...

Oyye take care tussi..

Well.. The first thing that comes to my mind on hearing the word is the relationship stuff.. Waiting for your post on it.. :)

Bhai with Chai said...

@ nidhi
thank youuu :)

//Committment makes it more beautiful and graceful :)

egggjacktly! you've put in just what I wanted to convey..
thanks!



@ vinz aka vinu
so true! it HAS got power.. and grace..
I'm loving the comments till now! :)
thanks!



@ trinaa
Tabiyat thoda down :(
Arei facebook pe toh hadd hai! "it's complicated"
and did ya notice, when a person changes the status from something else to single, they give a broken heart and say "he/she is now single"..
I mean.. what the ______?



@ anwesa
committed means resolved.. hmm..
how? explain more please :)




@ stupidosaur
LOL! you're thinking like Mom did.. suicide, crime..



@ alok
me committed to somebody - not happening

me committed to something - there's stuff.. but more on it later! :)

//Isn't commitment and effort that drives the world?

Sparks enthusiasm, yes.. drives the world or is the whole world.. mmmm.. I need to give it more thought! :)
thanks ya..



@ war10ck
Welcome! :)
lol.. you aren't the first one reporting a case of mistaken identity! :D
and no, I 'like' bhai with chai.. :P

exactly, the meaning has like, totally stuck to relationships now..

and for the second comment, I LIKE the thought yaa! *applause*
thanks!

Divya said...

get well soon bhai!

committed dekha toh socha ki waah kuch masaledaar confession post hai :P
quite evidently, the word 'committed' when used alone, reminds me of relationships.
i don't believe in the word though.. how many so called 'committed' relationships last? why bother then? committed in relationships is a strong word...people don't really use it in the true sense of the word anymore. or rather, they don't mean it or stick to it.

Bhai with Chai said...

@ sach!
where did your comment go?? :-o
I'm sure I read it!



@ urv
thanks!
and dekha.. you too na?? Sab orkut ka dosh hai! realtionship(s) are all that comes to mind now! Not that it's bad, but just that, the word has more to it.. which is lost now..!
and you tooo post something.. jaldi jaldi jaldi! :D
:)
It's soooooo good to be back! \:D/

Urv said...

He he.. But I don't think orkut has had much impact..

I know.. Its been real long since I posted something.. Hopefully in the weekend :)

RADhika said...

in fact, when i first read this title, i thought you've got "committed" with someone!
and i am happy that i also thought positively! :)

Express said...

Bhai! kinna miss kiya tujhe!

I n sachi made the most of the time though....

not going long, just wht u asked for.

Commitment 2 me is, giving ur whole n soul into something, anything. Something as insignificant as doodle.
Though the time/perseverance v can give into each commitment determines the amount of passion v have into it. But it is not necessary that v r passionate abt everything v commit into.

Blah! i am confused.

I just missed u v much!
muha!

Priya Joyce said...

committed to me is very important word. Actually the most imp coz if u r not committed to the thing u do u r not gonna be a happy person at the end of the day u wud feel scattered just and spread not compact.

Yes commitment is necessary for everything u do or hav to be a happy person/human being.

gunj said...

lol, committed suicide just turned d post upside down!!

Veens said...

hahaha! committed suicide :))

arre.. now i can't get the 'good' meaning of committed to remain with me :D

now i wil always think of committed suicide too :))

prashant said...

committed is a very powerful word...for me it means being loyal,dedicated towards whtever i decide to accomplish or achieve in my life....even commitment in relationship is vry important..i hve nvr been in one though bt i believe friendship is also a commitment,,how faithful u r to ur frends n vice versa is a kind of commitment i guess..anyway bhai wid chai no matter come wht may but i make a committment dat i wont stop visiting ur blog n reading all d wonderful posts which r worth reading and not missing;)
thumbs up:)

Diana said...

Hi..first time to ur blog....nice one

The word committment immediately reminds me of relationships....but thanx to social networking...the word's very often being dumped.

Think Tank said...

committed ? well i've always thot of committed with omitted and then my mom would run after me...mistakes bhai ..always mistakes ..

btw welcome bac ..hope u r well again

Gagan said...

Bhai....your chai rocks!!!!

Well....if it hadnt been for your unwellness....do you think i wud have had the pleasure to read this small yet beautiful post???? :D

Yes, committed is a strong word - taken in any sense whatsoever!!!!

Being committed is important....for work, for love, for fun....and even for death!!!!

Anyway....I wish you good health....and hope to read more from you....and yes, hope to have more of your chai!!!! Get Well Soon....Real Soon!

Sutta said...

Committed means?

-- Yeh "committed" hai yaar. Shit!! :(

Chal, koi na himmat ni harte. :|

Sutta said...

And about me?
I'm committed to my dreams.
Dil ke darwaazon ke andar tak. :P

Its a beautiful relationship.:)

mayz said...

d word i think has more to do wid how comfy one is in anythin...b it committed in a realtionship or committed to work etc etc

Bhai with Chai said...

@ divya
You know what?? Nai kuch pata bhi hai?? Maine itniiii lambi comment likhi in a reply to yours but server problem aa gayi! :((
Anyway, phir se..
Thank you! I'm trying to get well asap, but that ain't happening! :(

And I like you girl! I like you so much! Why?? This is why :-

//committed dekha toh socha ki waah kuch masaledaar confession post hai :P

ROTFL! :D :D

The rest that you've written, I totally agree with you! I agree with you more than you can ever know! :D

//how many so called 'committed' relationships last?
Seriously, people have taken away the meaning of the word from it and now it's more the 'status' and the gossip that comes with it, than the umm.. strength or purity of it!




@ urv
Oh.. so it's not because of orkut? Hmmmmm.. ;D
And mujh besharam ne toh kuch post kiya ni weekend pe.. tabiyat got worse.. I'll just finish with comments and see if you've done something!




@ radhika
Welcome! :)
and yaar.. har koi yehi soch ra hai! ;)

Bhai with Chai said...

@ express
mwaah mwaah mwaah!I missed you too! Blogging had become an everyday thing in the past 2 months and this sudden break was not good :(
Abhi bhi haven't had the time to go to so all blogs that I usually read and that doesn't feel cool at all! Anyway, it's almost like I am mailing you rather than commenting back! LOL..

and haan yaar, you definitely sound confused! passion vs commitment ho gaya hai..
Like, I am passionate about Food.. but committment doesn't fit in there.. so.. well.. quoting you..

Blah! i am confused.

:D :D

I want to be regularrrrr! Just pray that I am able to..
:)




@ priya joyce
That's your pic? Cute :)
Hmmm.. you brought the word into everyday job and living.. which is kinda right as well.. :)




@ gunj
;P I know!




@ veens
LOL.. "good" meaning.. I liked the way you put it! :D




@ prashant
:) sorry, I'm a lil late, but you know why!
You've put everything so simply and so cutely about friendships etc that I just wana >:D<





@ diana
Welcome! :)
and you're right.. that's what we've been talking about in comments.. :)

Bhai with Chai said...

@ think tank

//mistakes bhai ..always mistakes ..

ROTFL! :D :D hehe..
ps : Not ekdam fine.. but will be mast soon! :)




@ gagan
hehe.. thanks! Gagan ka comment bole toh ab koi jhaad pe chadhaayega :P

committment for death??? elucidate!



@ sutta
LOL..!

about the next comment :

//Its a beautiful relationship.:)

I'm sure it is :) :)





@ mayz
Heyloo! :)
umm.. being comfortable equated to being committed?? Like, I can kinda see the parallel but not quite understand it..
help?

Mohit said...

for me the word committment meand dedicated to something.Whether its anythng ur work,food,relationship anything..

Hemanth Potluri said...

commited means falling into a pit..being single is the best thing yaar...but if thats true love then they cherish for life...but the commited means for a perticular period and returns bac to single then no use ..

nice post...

urs..hemu..

Sarath said...

committed to me is not only about relationships but also life in general. People with the will and determination to hold onto something to which they have committed, no matter what happens. I have tremendous respect for such people. Wish I could also fall into such a category.

Nice blog. keep it up

Trinaa said...

phir gayab..ooof fooo :(

Pranay said...

Hey get well soon Bhai.....
Committed surely has acquired a new found respect and relevance post orkut! As for me, Committed sadly, just seems like someone's relationship status at first. I could think deeply about it but that wouldnt serve the pupose of your question then...
Take care...

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joiedevivre said...

haha sabse pehle i can see evryone is copyin my way to call u as "bhai"..oye tell dem dats mine..(copyrite issues)
hehe

hmm abt commitment..dats a big big wrd..evrything thing wich is done in its best possible way is done by commitment..yeah..

neha said...

:D :D bhai ur mom rocks..!!
( for joiedevivr- yaar even mai bhi bolte thi ise bhai from the very begining.. so i hope you lemme share that copyright wid you..!! ;D)


visited your blog yestady thinking ki pata ne kitna miss ho gya hoga..

i thot you wud have written that "iam committed to 'food' ..!!" :D

commitment for me is one feeling which makes life as beautiful as heaven for you.. its just that you dont need to force yourself to do sumthing.. wid commitment to tend to do all that apne aap.. jus for that "pagalpan" which is there for that thing/person/love/friendship (and so many other things yaaa)..

and i too respect ppl who are committed to sumthing good in their lives..

n i agree that the word now has lost its charm.. :( :(
i wont totally blame orkut or oder networking sites for it.. but the flaw is in our thinking as well..

neha said...

btw.. waiting for your next post :)

Bhai with Chai said...

@ mohit
hmmmm :)



@ hemanth potluri
yeh toh full-on relationships ho gaya! :P



@ sarath
Welcome! :)

//People with the will and determination to hold onto something to which they have committed, no matter what happens.

wow! that's such a wow way to put it!!

thanks! :)



@ trina
:(( kya karu?




@ pranay
thank you..

//Committed surely has acquired a new found respect post orkut

sachchi? :P



@ sach!
you are back? :) greato.. will just come around.. vrooooooom!

oye.. meko wo yaad aaya..
stayin alive.. stayin alive..aaah aah! :D :D



@ joiedevivre
Kitno ko bolein? Just share it na :)
It's been such a looong time! :)

//evrything thing wich is done in its best possible way is done by commitment

hmmm.. :)

Bhai with Chai said...

@ neha
:D I know! ;)
lol.. yeah.. food is a major passion.. but not commitment.. see, that's why I wanted to know the exact reflection of the word! :)

All that you said about it, makes complete sense :)

and maybe it is our thinking as well, but the initiator is Orkut!

Will post... dunno when! :((

Express said...

Hey kaha hai yaar.....

anyway, u ve been tagged :-)

Aditi ''Jiggs'' said...

committed suicide! "

rotfl

Sach! said...

abe ladki kahan hai??
minors ho gaye??
btw...main b pheenal yr me inni busy nahi hui hun jinni tu ho gayi hai...
And u in which stream? BTP me busy hai kya?

crasiezt said...

The first thing that comes to my mind is of a person being involved in a relationship..and not just something random, but a super serious one..one that he/she loves being in..one that he/she loves talking about..one that he/she is proud of..*zyada ho gaya kya?*

Divya said...

u have an award!

http://slateumchalkum.blogspot.com/2008/09/thank-you.html

Mohit said...

how long do we have to wait for the next one?

Bhai with Chai said...

@ express
Heyloooo! :) Checked the tag and commented!



@ aditi"jiggs"
:D



@ sach!
Minors toh late hain :(
BTP proj bole toh??
As for mera project, ek ghatiya sa synopsis submit kiya hai ab tak..bas! :D



@ crasiezt
God you're back! How are youuu??!

//one that he/she loves being in..one that he/she loves talking about..one that he/she is proud of

cute cute cute! :-) and so true!

//*zyada ho gaya kya?*

pagal hai kya?? ekdam nai..! :D




@ divya
Ladkiiiiiiiiiiiiii! I'll just check out the 'award'.. Yooo hoooooo! :-)




@ mohit
Boy, you had to wait for some 10 hours and voila! there's my post! :-)

Salil said...

Hi,

Committed for me is just short of being foolish or being married (one and the same!). Yeah, I am happily married for years and forcibly made to admit it every time :-)

I guess this is a cue for all single guys out there. Change your status to committed and get all the respect from women. You can always claim later on that you broke off :-) Now that is very beatiful and graceful depending on how you look at it!

Cheers,
Salil

Bhai with Chai said...

@ salil

//Change your status to committed and get all the respect from women

T-R-U-E!

Oh my god, I hope many guys don't read this!